老师一席话考生“阴转晴” 消除焦虑重在找到自信
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #993300; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">老师一席话考生“阴转晴”</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #993300"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #993300; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">消除焦虑重在找到自信</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #993300"><p /></span></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman" size="3">(2007-05-03 11:02)</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.1pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><font size="3"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">荆楚网消息（楚天都市报）</span></b><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">（见习记者范宁实习生汪洋）愁眉苦脸近半月、对考试毫无信心的考生，是如何重新振作？昨日，家长陈女士感慨，多亏<span style="COLOR: #993300">汉阳弘桥中学特级教师汪学毅</span>，给她帮了大忙。</span><span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">??陈女士说，女儿张娜（化名）在汉阳七里中学读初三，平时考试成绩保持在</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">460</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">分左右，</span><font face="Times New Roman"> <span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">不料四月调考中数学和科学都考砸了，总分仅</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">380</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">分，张娜顿时对学习失去信心，整天愁眉苦脸。甚至告诉妈妈，自己一定考不上好高中，会成为家里的负担，甚至萌生不愿上学的想法。</span><span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">??无奈之下，</span><span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">??陈女士带女儿找汪学毅做免费考试咨询。交谈中，汪学毅先拉起家常，只字不提考试的事。过了一会，他才问起张娜考试都错了哪些地方，若再做一遍能否答对等问题……</span><span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">??一个小时后，陈女士发现：近半个月没笑过的女儿，居然主动问起如何复习备考，脸上洋溢着笑容，对中考信心十足。</span><span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">??张娜为何会有这样的转变？汪学毅解释，每名考生考前都会紧张、</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">焦虑，空洞的劝说不仅难以奏效，还会适得其反，让考生更紧张。“家长喜欢拿考砸的结果‘鼓励’他们，孩子怎可能听得进去？”</span><span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">??<span style="COLOR: #993300">汪学毅建议，家长应先肯定考生取得的成绩，孩子容易接受，自信随之而来；再将考生面临的困难和问题，分解成容易达到的小目标，逐步克服。“孩子不断有成就感，就会逐渐消除紧张感，重拾自信。”</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="3"> </font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="3"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">——<strong><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">湖北电视台火凤网</span></strong></span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"> </font></span></font></p>
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